Wait for it...

When I was fourteen, my Grandpa gifted me a fly fishing lesson with an outfitter called Reel Women. They taught me how to tie on my first fly and cast from ten to two, with just the right amount of pause on the back cast. I don't remember if I caught a fish that day, but I do remember loving the motion, serenity, and one-pointed concentration of fly fishing. I was hooked, and have been doing it every since.

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One of the things I love most about fly fishing is the game of it. You have to choose the right fly that the fish want to eat, cast it out to them in a natural way, and then allow it to float in the water (sometimes for long stretches) and wait for a fish to take the bait. If I were limited to two words to describe fly fishing I would say: presentation and patience. 

I feel like I'm learning this lesson of patience and waiting in my life- not just on the rivers and creeks. I've been doing Jess Lively's Flow With Intention Online course this month (I did it the first time in February) which is all about finding flow in your life.  She says to find alignment before action, and to wait for inspired action. Sounds easy. In real life, it can be tricky sometimes. The waiting game- especially when you're an entrepreneur- feels like a death sentence. Yet, I can actually feel my intuition nudging me to just wait and see. To trust the timing and maybe just this once flow instead of force... So, my fly is cast on the river of life and I feel myself fluctuating between being very zen and totally freaking out about the wait. But I'm waiting. Waiting until it feels like the right time to take action, and even learning to enjoy the process. 

Eco Outfit Details

BARCLAY TOP, Aventura $75 #organiccotton 

BRAMWELL VEST, Aventura $99 #ethicallymade

For this post I partnered with Aventura and loved learning about the brand's commitment to creating every day pieces with a country twist while upholding ethical and sustainable practices. If you live in the mountains, or have a trip coming up- definitely check them out!

We shot these photos at Astoria Hot Springs, which is where I learned to swim when I was little! I'm thrilled to share that the Trust for Public Land’s efforts to revive Astoria Hot Springs Park, as a new 100-acre, public park, centered around an innovative, affordable new outdoor public hot springs facility succeeded! To learn more about how you can support visit AstoriaHotSpringsPark.com.

Photos by the one and only Cole Buckhart. 

Go Your Own Way

I'm currently enrolled in Brooke Castillo's Self Coaching Scholars program. Jess Lively (one of my favorites in the self growth sphere) interviewed her on the Lively Show podcast (many thanks Eunique from Stranded On Land for introducing me!) and I felt like, 'That's my coach.' I'd been curious about life coaching and felt like the topic kept coming up amongst my girlfriends. I wanted coaching on how to go above and beyond my current potential and put some effort in that space to see what I could unlock. It takes work, and the work is worth it.

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I'm really enjoying SCS. Brooke is a no nonsense lady with a big heart, and she provides amazing structure and a model to work through on the daily to get in the right mindset to achieve your dreams. If you need a kick in the butt to get going, you should listen to her podcast on productivity. Talk about getting shit done!

Everything was going great and then this last week I kind of hit a speed bump. So much of what Jess talks about on the Lively Show is about flow, and I did her Flow With Intention Course in the spring and it set me on a totally new trajectory for which I am very grateful. I feel like I'm having to balance the action oriented structure of SCS with the 'go with the flow' approach that Jess shares. This past week was challenging. I struggled to find my way and what felt like the 'right way' of working. 

Luckily, I went on a walk with my friend Liz Gibbs, who simply stated that we can take in the advice and methodology of others and then we have to make it our own. The good news is, we really do know how to make it our own. Just listen to yourself and you'll feel the guidance. She reminded me of this, and I felt it right away. 

Brooke's structuring is a little overboard for me, and that's okay. I can be inspired by her methods and then apply them as they work for me (ie: planning out each week instead of the entire month). I do the same with what I am getting from Jess. I do think that finding that good feeling before I act is important, and I'm leaving room in my schedule for that, while balancing my 'to do' list from Brooke. 

It feels important to have goals and things we are invested in and building or working towards. At the same time, I think it's necessary to enjoy life in the current moment and allow time for the things and people we enjoy. I'll admit that finding the balance isn't always easy, but being aware of it and putting attention there feels like a step in the right direction. In the end, I hear Fleetwood Mac in my head telling me to... 'Go your own way!'

Eco Outfit Details

LEATHER JACKET, The Sway, $600 #upcylcedleather #ethicallymade

KNIT DRESS (similar to one shown), Everlane $38 #ethicallymade #transparent

BAG, Ona Villier $145 #handmade #artisanmade #ethicallymade 

BOOTS (similar to one shown), Everlane $225 #madeinItaly #ethciallymade #naturalfibers  

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Trust Yourself

I was recently chatting with Betsy Hosp, the author behind an upcoming book called Power of One Woman. She had asked me some questions for her book, and in the process sent me time traveling back to my youth. To my teenage years where I was exploring who I was and who I wanted to become. I don't know if you felt this way, but for me thirteen was a hard ass year to get through. Never had I felt so unsure of myself and how I wanted to present myself to the world. Plus hormones. Despite the hardship of that year, and trying to 'fit in' while being true to myself, I learned a valuable life lesson. I learned to trust myself. And, in some form or another, have been doing it ever since. 

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I say 'some form or another' because it hasn't always been straightforward. There were times I felt far from myself and unsure of what I wanted. Yet, it always came back to me. I think when we are quiet enough and sit with ourselves long enough, we hear the guidance we are seeking... from non other than our very own selves. 

I believe there is a greater part of ourselves that is plugged directly into the Bigger Picture (what some may call Source, the Universe or God), and that part of ourselves (souls, spirit, etc) has our wellbeing in mind, and knows exactly what we truly desire and is orchestrating events around us to bring those desires into fruition. All we have to do is tune in and let that part of ourselves do the guiding. I apply this across the board! From picking out the clothes I want to wear, to the food I want to eat, to the words I type in a blog post or email. You know what I'm talking about, right? It's that inner tug you feel that nudges you to say yes or say no. Or an inspired thought to reach out to someone, or pick up a copy of the newspaper where you later read an article that speaks directly to you. 

I truly believe we all know what we want. We do. Put all the BS and excuses aside. If you keep expectations, judgements, and social norms out of it, you can more clearly follow yourself and trust that you know exactly how to create the life and the YOU that you are craving. 

Eco Outfit Details:

WORKOUT CROP BRA TOP, Cotton On Body (gifted) #ethicalsourcing #ethicalproduction

SHIMMER CROP TIGHT, Cotton On Body (gifted) #ethicalsourcing #ethicalproduction 

Cotton On is a brand that came onto my radar last year. They're an Australian brand that is quickly expanding across the globe. As an Australian brand, it was no surprise to learn they have a strong ethical and environmental commitment as a company. They ensure ethical and transparent production with their manufacturing partners as well as considered environmental actions to cut emissions and participate in recycling in their distribution logistics. 

Cotton On Body asked me to collaborate with them for their August sustainability campaign, and I'm excited to showcase their eco efforts. While they are not an 'eco brand' I commend their commitment to actively incorporating eco and ethical standards as part of their brand DNA. By 2018 they've vowed to source all cotton aligned with the Better Cotton Initiative. When big brands make commitments like this, it really moves the needle. Nice work Cotton On Body! 

Photos taken at Slide Lake in Jackson Hole, WY by the talented Mr. Cole Buckhart. 

Future Positive

In the game of golf there is a term I love called Future Positive. It refers to your mental state as you play the game and more specifically right before you hit your next shot. Each time you step up to hit, you can either tell yourself, "Don't mess up this shot" (which is focusing on what you don't want to do- mess up the shot) or you can tell yourself, "I've got this and I am going to hit it straight." We get what we think about, so I try really hard to catch myself when a negative thought comes floating by. And instead of latching onto that thought and making it my own, I release it and replace it with a positive one. I do this in all aspects of my life.

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Let me give you a real life example. Summer is a busy time and lately I have been feeling overwhelmed with everything I have and want to do each day. My instant thought is, "I have too much to do and not enough time!" I stop and recognize how that thought is not making me feel good, and then I choose to replace it with a new thought: "I have enough time to do it all, and everything is working out perfectly for me." This thought calms my mind and limbic system. It helps me then approach my day from a positive mindset instead of a lack mindset, and guess what... I do get everything done and it works out perfectly. 

Can you relate to this? Stay positive my friends, it will change your world like you never imagined!

ECO OUTFIT

Parker Vintage Cutoff Jeans, AGOLDE, $128 #100%cotton #naturalfibers

Mallory Off the Shoulder Lace Top, Walter Baker, $74 #100%cotton #naturalfibers

Berri Platform Slip-On Sneaker (similar to ones shown), Matt & Nat, $54 #vegan 

Photos taken by Cole Buckhart at String Lake in Jackson Hole, WY. 

Let's Celebrate!

I recently hit a milestone with a new company I soft launched (more soon!), and because life is busy and even though you've accomplished this one thing, there is still so much to do- I almost let the moment pass by without celebrating it. Almost. Then, I realized that life is meant to be enjoyed and celebrated. Taking time to acknowledge myself and my team and celebrate what we brought into reality is important. And so is taking that time to allow yourself to feel good. 

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So, I was hiking with my dear friend Lindsay Linton and we were discussing this very thing, and it occurred to me that I don't want to have to wait to celebrate when something major happens (though that does feel like the right time to throw a party!). I want to celebrate every day. Find something every day worth tipping my hat to in acknowledgement and allowing my heart to swell for a minute while I embrace the positive feelings around it. In a way, I think I am already doing this when I write my appreciation list each night before bed. I simply reflect on the day and write out around ten things that I appreciate from the day. Now I am feeling inspired to find something each day to, in the moment, celebrate. Wanna join me? Let's share our celebration stories in the comments below. xx

Photos from the Teton County Fair in Jackson Hole, WY by Cole Buckhart.