Future Positive

In the game of golf there is a term I love called Future Positive. It refers to your mental state as you play the game and more specifically right before you hit your next shot. Each time you step up to hit, you can either tell yourself, "Don't mess up this shot" (which is focusing on what you don't want to do- mess up the shot) or you can tell yourself, "I've got this and I am going to hit it straight." We get what we think about, so I try really hard to catch myself when a negative thought comes floating by. And instead of latching onto that thought and making it my own, I release it and replace it with a positive one. I do this in all aspects of my life.

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Let me give you a real life example. Summer is a busy time and lately I have been feeling overwhelmed with everything I have and want to do each day. My instant thought is, "I have too much to do and not enough time!" I stop and recognize how that thought is not making me feel good, and then I choose to replace it with a new thought: "I have enough time to do it all, and everything is working out perfectly for me." This thought calms my mind and limbic system. It helps me then approach my day from a positive mindset instead of a lack mindset, and guess what... I do get everything done and it works out perfectly. 

Can you relate to this? Stay positive my friends, it will change your world like you never imagined!

 
 

ECO OUTFIT

Parker Vintage Cutoff Jeans, AGOLDE, $128 #100%cotton #naturalfibers

Mallory Off the Shoulder Lace Top, Walter Baker, $74 #100%cotton #naturalfibers

Berri Platform Slip-On Sneaker (similar to ones shown), Matt & Nat, $54 #vegan 

 
 
 
 
 

Photos taken by Cole Buckhart at String Lake in Jackson Hole, WY. 

What to Wear on a Resort Vaca: Part 1

It's the dead of winter, and I'm not thinking about snow angels or hot coco by a crackling fire. Nope! I'm dreaming of warm sand beaches and aqua marine water... If you're planning a getaway week or weekend to a tropical place, this post is for you. 

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Partnering with my friends at Seek Wander Share, an online boutique curating stylish and social goods perfectly suited for island life, I'm excited to announce a new three part series on What to Wear on a Resort Vaca. If you're lucky enough to break away for a warm weather trip this winter or spring, this is a series you won't want to miss! 

The first look is all about being comfortable and stylish as you roam around town and do some sightseeing or shopping. My absolute favorite thing to do is wander around a new place and see where the path leads me. No agenda. No expectations. Just openness to discovery. What's your favorite part about being on vacation?

 

Eco Outfit Details:

PONCH TOP, Seek Wander Share #handcrafted #oneofakind #social #transparent #ethical #fair

BODYSUIT, American Apparel #madeinUSA

CUT-OFF JEANS, Levis by RE/DONE #upcycled #naturalfibers #vintage

LAYER BRACELET, Muses & Rebels #madeinLA

GLASS BEAD WRAP BRACELET, Seek Wander Share #handmade #social #fair #ethical 

FUCHSIA WRAP BRACELET, Seek Wander Share #handmade #social #fair #ethical 

BUCKET BAG, Baggu #naturalmilledleather #madeinUSA

ESPLAR SNEAKERS, Veja via Amour Vert #lowchromeleather #recycledcotton #amazonrubber 

Many thanks to Seek Wander Share for sponsoring this post. Photos and video footage by Felicia Lasala. :)

Patching it Together

This past weekend I attended the Awesome Women Entrepreneurs conference at Wanderlust in West Hollywood. What I loved most was the intersection of spirit and business. I don't know if it's a female thing and just a natural disposition we have to operate from a place of intuition and connectedness to do business, but it was wonderful to acknowledge and affirm the importance of both aspects. 

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The speakers were fabulous and the reading list super helpful. In case you weren't there, I've included my personal takeaways here. 

Danielle La Porte- Her name has surfaced in my circle before, but I haven't yet studied her work or taken in her wise words. She gave an amazing talk on the stage that left the room buzzing with power and potential. I picked up a copy of her book The Desire Map, which is all about get clarity on what you want and setting goals that align with your soul. Can't wait to start! She also wrote the Fire Starter Sessions, which I had heard of and also would like to read.

Kate Northrup- Coincidentally (or not so) I was reading her book, Money: A Love Story, before I signed up to attend the conference. I've found it to be a great resource for looking out how you FEEL about money which subconscious instructs how you make it, manage it, and even value yourself. I fully recommend this book! The loudest message I heard was, "Your financial well-being is directly linked to your ability to be of the utmost service in this world. Your commitment to financial freedom is a commitment to the betterment of all beings."

Radha Agrawal- The co-founder of DayBreaker (a get up and dance 6:30- 8:30am sober dance party to start your day). Radha's energy and pure passion for her purpose to create businesses that make the world and everyone's experience of it better is so inspiring and contagious! Radha is a serial social entrepreneur and such a great example of where following your heart and curiosity can lead. I am going to my first DayBreaker event on November 16th in West LA. Join me?

 
 

Eco Outfit Details

RAW-HEMMED JEANS WITH BUTTERFLY PATCHES, Reclaimed Vintage #reclaimedmaterial #naturalfibers

PATCH POCKET BLOUSE (similar to one shown), Reclaimed Vintage #reclaimedmaterials #vintage 

BLAZER (similar to one shown), Eileen Fisher #organic #fair #ethicallymade

ANKLE BOOTS (similar to ones shown), Everlane #transparent

SUNGLASSES, c/o Article One #ethicallymade #handcrafted #madeinItaly 

Photos by Felicia Lasala. Special thanks to Article One for sponsoring this post.

Morticia Adams

I've never been one to 'celebrate' Halloween, but I will admit that some of those classic movies and characters that seem to make a comeback each year hit the spot. From BeetleJuice to Death Becomes Her, and The Adams Family, I have fond memories of staying up late with friends during sleepovers and scheming costumes to trick or treat in. Fast forward to today and I find myself taking fashion cues from the icons- among them Morticia Adams. Though, not a literal translation into a costume, I was excited to create a modern look inspired by Morticia. 

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I suppose all I would need to take this from an everyday outfit to 'Rad Costume' status is a pair of heels, white body paint, eyeliner (for eyes and eyebrows) and some lipstick. Hmmm, maybe I will indulge in the make-believe of Halloween after all... Hope you all have a fun and safe one! 

 

Eco Outfit Details

LONG SLEEVE LACE SHIRT DRESS, Reclaimed Vintage #upcycled #reclaimedfabric (This piece is currently on sale for $25! Snatch it up!)

LONG SLIP DRESS, (similar to one shown) Averti #madeinUSA #local #silk #naturalfibers

BUCKET BAG, Baggu via Amour Vert (gifted) #naturalmilledleather #madeinUSA

ANKLE BOOTS, (similar to ones shown) Charlotte Stone via Amour Vert

 

Photos by Felicia Lasala.